“Chaos is a name for any order that
produces confusion in our minds.” — George Santayana


Avoid keeping things stirred up. This is especially important if
events have caused confusion or disruption or if there is arguing or serious
controversy. At those times, tension and stress tend to be high and the
emotional wash can quickly cover everyone and everything. This was pointed out
by Anaïs Nin, “We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are.”
Importantly, you don’t necessarily try to soothe people or calm the situation.
Rather, you stop anything you are doing to exacerbate the tension and then
figuratively and perhaps literally move away, out of the negative energy field.
You need to get away from all the static before you can deal effectively with
the situation.